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Inner Tantra; The Ultimate Path To Ecstasy

The Inner Tantra System ™ was developed by Dr. Vito Hemphill to help couples and individuals open doorways that would remain otherwise hidden — doorways into love, connection, and lasting emotional fulfillment. It is meant for those who wish to enhance and expand communication and intimacy and to use their relationships as part of their spiritual practice.

Partnership is just business without intimacy. Has your love relationship turned into a business contract? Sure, you work, feed the children, and talk about your problems with your lover, but is that really enough? Many of us want more than technical support from our life partner. It gets back to the old saying, “Do you live to work or work to live?” Your love relationship should not be reduced to a chore list that you share with your lover just to get through the week.

Where’s the passion? Where’s the yearning? Where is the kind of love that you crave more than food? This is the nectar of love that connects lovers even when they are apart. Remember the look in your lover’s eyes, the smell of your lover’s hair or taste of your lover’s sweat? Love like this is possible for those who value it and are willing to step outside their own limitations. It is a matter of opening your heart to vulnerability, compassion, honesty, and selflessness. Society doesn’t teach us this kind of simple and profound love; however, it is possible to learn.

The fine art of true connection starts within you. You have to be intimate with yourself. You have to be willing to be honest with yourself and even willing to be wrong to shatter your old patterns that are not bringing intimacy into your life. Patterns of victimization, self-righteousness, fear, anger, lack of healthy boundaries, powerlessness, projection of past pain into present reality, and so many other wounds keep us from truly opening our hearts to real love.

Your pain makes you believe that real love is unattainable. As long as you believe in your own limitations, you will continue to limit your reality. As you release your old limitations, you will attract more clarity than you can imagine. Whatever you focus on gets bigger. So, as you become more conscious of your own hidden beliefs and expectations, you will see how you have created all the situations of your life. As you become more impeccable with your words and thoughts, you will have a more ecstatic life. Your dreams and intentions will manifest most effectively when you consistently hold your entire focus on what you truly want to create.

You are responsible for you what you create. Most people create their lives from the unconscious and subconscious wounds that they have lived for many lifetimes. Even the pain of this life alone makes most of us believe in loss, lack of love, betrayal, and distrust of the world. Most of us have experienced a lot of pain and that pain has validated our negative belief systems. Those negative beliefs create more loss scenarios that further validate our experience of victimization. This pattern can be healed by seeing how the negative attraction system operates. Once you see your limiting beliefs you will want to change them. This is the Law of Attraction and it always works. By knowing yourself, you can consciously make choices that attract a reality of more love and intimacy.

The greatest relationship challenge is intimacy. To attract intimacy in relationships, you must first learn how to be intimate with yourself. This means being willing to see all of yourself in a bigger perspective. Once you learn new techniques to see your deeper patterns and intentions, you can apply the same methods to better see your partner and anyone else using your new lens. By seeing yourself and the others more clearly, you will be able to make more positive and conscious choices to create healthier relationships that will revitalize your life and bring more you more prosperity.

The desired outcome of all this transformational inner work is to experience as much ecstasy as possible within you. Then, you can share that ecstasy with your partner and everyone else you encounter everyday. Ecstasy can be defined as ‘a state of blissful union with Source.’ Your actual experience of ecstasy attracts more ecstatic people and situations into your world. The idea is to maintain the ecstatic state for as many hours as possible each day. The state of prolonged ecstasy then becomes your reality.

We are each made of both masculine and feminine. When we bring a healthy balance to our love relationships they will bloom into a fully ecstatic celebration of intimacy. Designed to help balance your own masculine (doing) and feminine (being) energies, the Inner Tantra System ™ starts with your inner self and then moves out as an external manifestation. Developing clarity on the inside helps to manifest external clarity in relationships and in every other aspect of your life. What you are not conscious of within yourself still creates your daily reality. Make the choice to look deeper within to see who you really are and why you are creating the patterns that either brings you pain or pleasure. Once you see your own truth, you will want to change what is not working.
Posted on: 2010-01-13 09:46:40. Comments